Comments on: Religion vs Traditional Practices in Marriage http://baikong.wordpress.com/2008/02/16/religion-vs-traditional-practices-in-marriage/ It's all about me, women, people, culture, and life Tue, 01 Dec 2009 10:57:54 +0000 http://wordpress.com/ hourly 1 By: Letishya http://baikong.wordpress.com/2008/02/16/religion-vs-traditional-practices-in-marriage/comment-page-1/#comment-836 Letishya Wed, 24 Jun 2009 02:48:58 +0000 http://baikong.wordpress.com/?p=41#comment-836 Salam Bai! I actully believe in "Love Marriage." Hehehe.. This what i read about love vs marriage: (medyo funny!) pero true naman.. Love is holding hands in the street. Marriage is holding arguments in the street. Love is dinner for 2 in your favorite restaurant. Marriage is a take home packet. Love is cuddling on a sofa. Marriage is one of them sleeping on a sofa. Love is talking about having children. Marriage is talking about getting away from children. Love is going to bed early. Marriage is going to sleep early. Love is a romantic drive. Marriage is arrive on tops curvy tarmac . Love is losing your appetite. Marriage is losing your figure. Love is sweet nothing in the ear. Marriage is sweet nothing in the bank. Tv has no place in love. Marriage is a fight for remote control. Love is 1 drink and 2 straws. Marriage is “Don’t you think you’ve had enough!”. Conclusion: “Love is blind, Marriage is an eye opener!” Agree?! Salam Bai!

I actully believe in “Love Marriage.” Hehehe..
This what i read about love vs marriage: (medyo funny!) pero true naman..

Love is holding hands in the street.
Marriage is holding arguments in the street.

Love is dinner for 2 in your favorite restaurant.
Marriage is a take home packet.

Love is cuddling on a sofa.
Marriage is one of them sleeping on a sofa.

Love is talking about having children.
Marriage is talking about getting away from children.

Love is going to bed early.
Marriage is going to sleep early.

Love is a romantic drive.
Marriage is arrive on tops curvy tarmac .

Love is losing your appetite.
Marriage is losing your figure.

Love is sweet nothing in the ear.
Marriage is sweet nothing in the bank.

Tv has no place in love.
Marriage is a fight for remote control.

Love is 1 drink and 2 straws.
Marriage is “Don’t you think you’ve had enough!”.

Conclusion: “Love is blind, Marriage is an eye opener!”

Agree?!

]]> By: Baikong http://baikong.wordpress.com/2008/02/16/religion-vs-traditional-practices-in-marriage/comment-page-1/#comment-69 Baikong Tue, 25 Mar 2008 09:40:32 +0000 http://baikong.wordpress.com/?p=41#comment-69 Thanks Rolloti. Its interesting and a real challenge for me. Thanks Rolloti. Its interesting and a real challenge for me.

]]> By: Rolloti http://baikong.wordpress.com/2008/02/16/religion-vs-traditional-practices-in-marriage/comment-page-1/#comment-65 Rolloti Tue, 25 Mar 2008 03:39:47 +0000 http://baikong.wordpress.com/?p=41#comment-65 Interesting text.., dude Interesting text.., dude

]]> By: Baikong Mamid http://baikong.wordpress.com/2008/02/16/religion-vs-traditional-practices-in-marriage/comment-page-1/#comment-26 Baikong Mamid Mon, 03 Mar 2008 08:25:57 +0000 http://baikong.wordpress.com/?p=41#comment-26 yeah, I agree with you matt. I do hope strategy/ies work/s. I think it will. I know my family more than anyone else. I don't want to lose either one of the three you mentioned. It is fundamental to life worth. yeah, I agree with you matt. I do hope strategy/ies work/s. I think it will. I know my family more than anyone else. I don’t want to lose either one of the three you mentioned. It is fundamental to life worth.

]]> By: matt http://baikong.wordpress.com/2008/02/16/religion-vs-traditional-practices-in-marriage/comment-page-1/#comment-25 matt Sun, 02 Mar 2008 11:56:03 +0000 http://baikong.wordpress.com/?p=41#comment-25 I guess it depends what you feel is important for carrying you through a marriage/relationship successfully over many years. It is love/family/religion that will carry the two of you through? Sometimes, in fact quite often all three won't work together. How your brainwashing strategy works. :) I guess it depends what you feel is important for carrying you through a marriage/relationship successfully over many years. It is love/family/religion that will carry the two of you through?

Sometimes, in fact quite often all three won’t work together.

How your brainwashing strategy works. :)

]]> By: Baikong Mamid http://baikong.wordpress.com/2008/02/16/religion-vs-traditional-practices-in-marriage/comment-page-1/#comment-14 Baikong Mamid Mon, 18 Feb 2008 11:09:51 +0000 http://baikong.wordpress.com/?p=41#comment-14 Hi Rina! I thank you for the comment. Most of the time, it feels good to listen to somebody and finds out that you have they same experience. It reminds you that you are not alone in this world. I am impressed with your decision. I also agree that a family is very important. But there are times we have to make a win-win decision and approach if its applicable. First, I am not rushing up things. Second, I will be doing the brainwashing strategy to win the votes in my family. Third, Allah is there to help me thus, things are possible. And fourth, that gives me courage. :-) Hi Rina!
I thank you for the comment. Most of the time, it feels good to listen to somebody and finds out that you have they same experience. It reminds you that you are not alone in this world. I am impressed with your decision. I also agree that a family is very important. But there are times we have to make a win-win decision and approach if its applicable. First, I am not rushing up things. Second, I will be doing the brainwashing strategy to win the votes in my family. Third, Allah is there to help me thus, things are possible. And fourth, that gives me courage. :-)

]]> By: Rina http://baikong.wordpress.com/2008/02/16/religion-vs-traditional-practices-in-marriage/comment-page-1/#comment-13 Rina Mon, 18 Feb 2008 03:22:13 +0000 http://baikong.wordpress.com/?p=41#comment-13 Hey Baikong, This is a very interesting topic. I, my self is experiencing almost the same thing like you. Only for me, I choose my family over anyone else in the world. Getting married is not just between the guy and I but it's more about my family towards his family. The way I look at love is more a companionship rather than lust and passion. I always try to think rationally at first and not just instantly follow my heart. Nonetheless, if you think that this guy is right for you, then just try hard to make the realationship work and leave it to Allah SWT for the result. Just remember, trying hard means that you have to try various way of communicating and 'brain-washing' your family' about the guy. Making changes are not easy and will never be one. Good Luck! Hey Baikong,

This is a very interesting topic. I, my self is experiencing almost the same thing like you.

Only for me, I choose my family over anyone else in the world. Getting married is not just between the guy and I but it’s more about my family towards his family.

The way I look at love is more a companionship rather than lust and passion. I always try to think rationally at first and not just instantly follow my heart.

Nonetheless, if you think that this guy is right for you, then just try hard to make the realationship work and leave it to Allah SWT for the result.

Just remember, trying hard means that you have to try various way of communicating and ‘brain-washing’ your family’ about the guy.

Making changes are not easy and will never be one.

Good Luck!

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